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Re: really stupid question

On Oct 21, 11:30 pm, astri <inva...@example.com> wrote:
> On Sun, 21 Oct 2007, emerging butterfly wrote:
> > On Oct 21, 10:59 pm, astri <inva...@example.com> wrote:
> >> On Sun, 21 Oct 2007, Emerging Butterfly wrote:
> >>> On Oct 21, 9:48 pm, astri <inva...@example.com> wrote:
> >>>> On Sun, 21 Oct 2007, Emerging Butterfly wrote:
> >>>>> On Oct 21, 8:21 pm, astri <inva...@example.com> wrote:
> >>>>>> On Sun, 21 Oct 2007, emerging butterfly wrote:
>
> >>>>> but understand feels that way.
> >>>>> wish could help that feeling.
> >>>>> (in you and in me)
>
> >>>> oh well
> >>>> happens
>
> >>> i notice you do this a lot. -- when people get very empathic n see
> >>> that you're feeling really bad, you sorta seem to shrug it off. ya
> >>> know? like not want to realize pain is bad, pain seen, is okay for
> >>> people to care?
>
> >> maybe just being resigned to it being like that?
>
> > makes sense -- still feel sad for you(s) that the resignation is
> > there.
>
> oh
> what else is there to do?

good point. cry maybe? if we could cry more, n internalize care, would
help us a lot. (me and my insiders, i mean)
but, yeah, what else? pound walls? rail at the heavens? i see where
you're coming from.


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> >> (is also a bit scary to be seen, yes)
>
> > understand this.
>
> >>> just pointing out cuz think we do same, n hard to see you minimize
> >>> stuff so much sometimes. (meant this like kind person wanting you
> >>> to feel okay taking kindness,
>
> >> k
>
> >>> n seeing is hard for you. not criticism. just noticing....don't let
> >>> care for pain get too deep.)
>
> >> maybe is taking care of others, too
> >> not want others to hurt cuz of us
> >> think deep care can get painful
> >> and we disappoint if not change right away
>
> > yes.
> > makes sense.
> > nice of you to care and not want others to feel bad n such.
> > we won't expect or be disappointed if things don't change right away,
> > even though sad you hurt.
>
> ok
>
> > Sometimes think just crying or acknowledging is good outlet, good
> > start.
>
> yes
> can be
>
> > when some cry, you shrug.
>
> ?

meant, when some in your situation might cry, you shrug.
didn't mean in condescending way at all. just...wanted to...help?

>
> > is sad to us.
>
> -- astri
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