Re: More adventures with a 6yo

<taler@taler.org> wrote in
news:1958cba7e26cf1b908be235e528e5b36@remailer.metacolo.com:

> I'm glad then that I don't live in any of those countries. The story I
> shared with you happened many years ago, my cousin is now in her mid
> twenties and we have a great relationship, whe live very far apart
> now, but she visits me from time to time and we usually have a great
> time, including reliving our early experiences, I must say that sex
> between us is amazing, mostly because she is very good in bed (not
> sure if the early start helped her or not). But more than sex, we are
> very good friends and always have been.
>
> I sometimes wonder if us being so close is also due to our early
> games, but I can't substantiate that.
>
> I also feel sorry for those of you that can't realize your fantasies
> due to fear of punishment by your society and legal systems. It is
> really unfair, because the only ones that do act are the ones that are
> trully sick and end up hurting children in a physical way too (even
> causing them death).
>
> Taler.

All I can say is "Wow!".  You have both my admiration and my envy.  When
I mentioned that you'd have to live on an "island" in order to escape
the demonizing (and soul-damaging) judgement of society's "moral
police", I had little idea that such places really existed.  You are
indeed blessed to have lived in such a place, despite the need to keep
things "secret" between the both of you.

It also seems that your adventures with her were both fun (esp. for her)
and loving, which is a goal that many of us, me, in particular, strive
for (at least in our fantasies) in our encounters with young children.

I believe that your closeness with your cousin today is a direct
reflection of the honesty (and, likely, vulnerability) that you infused
into that relationship.  You were able to make your young partner feel
as a true equal in the relationship - something that is both refreshing
and rare.

So many adults have an ulterior motive in their so-called sexual "play"
with children.  What they consider "consentual" is more likely coercion,
primarily because they, as the adult, wields all the power in the
relationship, and is focused primarily on his or her own pleasure.  The
child effectively has little choice other than to "consent" to the
adult's demands - either out of fear of physical harm or fear of losing
whatever semblance of "love" that the child has managed to squeeze from
that relationship.

To say that I would have loved to have enjoyed such adventures myself is
an understatement. The nature of the love, trust, openness, and pure
sense of fun that a healthy young child is able to bring to a
"sex-allowed" relationship is an experience bordering on heavenly bliss.
To have an intimate  relationship without the toxic baggage so common
in adult interactions is a rare luxury that most of us are only able to
experience in our dreams.

So from a poor persecuted dreamer to one who has nurtured his dreams
into loving and real memories, Taler, please continue to share your
sensual-sexual adventures.  If I can't live them myself, at least I can
do so vicariously through you.

[Note to Frank and PSF] - thanks for the respectful and intelligent
responses to my comments.  Would that all who share here have such
consideration and insight!  Wouldn't it be a wonderful world if the
individuals who truly love, cherish, and safeguard children were
accorded the exalted respect that they genuinely deserve!  When will our
morally-repressive societies finally realize that children ARE the
future (as well as priceless gifts)?

-h2-
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