Re: Nine months today

On Apr 9, 6:43 pm, threestars1...@yahoo.com wrote:
> On Apr 9, 4:39 pm, easyjet2...@msn.com wrote:
>
> > Just got home from the cemetery. It was nine monthe today that we were
> > all sitting by Dad's hospital bed when he died. It was a beautiful and
> > sunny day that day, too. I would gladley give ANYTHING I have to have
> > him back. I want another chance! I would make him live with me and I
> > would take care of him.
>
> > His birthday is the 24th. Two weeks from tomorrow. I will drive the
> > 100+ miles to the cemetery again. I wish I was driving to his house
> > for a b-day party. I am having a bad day. Sorry.
>
> You are heart-broken and sad!  Never apologize for that.  Having
> regrets will only torment you!  The past is chiseled in concrete!  The
> past doesn't change.  Benjamin

All of us are having bad days and not so bad days, you're not
alone. I believe
everyone also wishes they could have done something differently before
they
lost their loved one. I wish I knew then what I know now about heart
disease and heart
attacks which took my mom.
Isnt it interesting when you think, "what would I give to spend an
afternoon or another day
with your lost loved one"  My mom used to play the television so loud
because she had
lost so much of her hearing that it was hard to be around, it was
blasting at times!!!  I would
give anything to hear it again, gladly.   My dad watches sports with
the sound off most of the time.
He's not a fan of most sports broadcasters so it can be incredibly
boring to sit and watch a basketball
game or baseball game with no sound.  But the other day I realized,
someday I will say, I would give anything
to watch a game with my dad, sound or not. So we spent the rest of the
day together watching
some quiet games    bob
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