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Re: Hello, Dear Hearts...

Von: donna (donnac406@hotmail.com) [Profil]
Datum: 23.09.2007 04:35
Message-ID: <1190514948.001577.34070@k79g2000hse.googlegroups.com>
Newsgroup: alt.support.grief
dear char,

what a lovely letter.  i am so sorry for the loss of your parents;
your mother - by consciously chosing to make a decision about the end
of her life - showed a strength that i don't know that i have.  i
understand feeling like an orphan, it was one of those secrets i had
to find out about for myself when my mother died.

i also understand talking to her troll dolls ... sending your love to
your parents through an object they owned.

someone recently posted and asked if it was possible to "talk about
grief from a dispassionate, non-personal point of view."  like
grandby, i just don't know how to do that.  everything about my
daughter's death is passionate and personal for me, i can't see that
it will ever be any other way.  savannah had just turned 22 years
old.  suddenly, unexpectedly, without prior symptoms or any warning,
she collapsed on our floor.  she was dying as i reached her in less
than 30 seconds.  gone.  gone forever from a congenital heart defect.

the pain we all go through with the loss of a loved one is beyond what
any words can explain.  but here, when we talk about the pain we also
share the love we have for them and love is forever.

welcome,

donna




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