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Re: I need suggestions please

Von: donna (donnac406@hotmail.com) [Profil]
Datum: 11.05.2008 00:44
Message-ID: <a36d0f9f-bee9-4193-a1b4-30c0458aa0ea@f24g2000prh.googlegroups.com>
Newsgroup: alt.support.grief

what a wonderful sister you are, pam.  you are already doing every
single thing you can for your sister; she is blessed to have you.

about one and one half years after my daughter died i began having
troubles at work.   for the first eighteen months i kept my eyes down
and didn't speak to anyone.  couldn't, just couldn't.  then one of the
mid-level managers began to complain about my poor job performance ...
she was correct.  i was doing mediocre work at best.

i went straight to the big boss.  i told him i didn't know if i could
do the work anymore.  told him: 'i don't think i'm going to live
through this.'

this is what he replied to me: 'donna, do what you can.  your job is
safe.  tell us what you can do.  we're with you.  we're behind you.'

pam, this was one of the best, kindest things any person told me after
savannah died.  you are doing the same for your sister.  the only
thing i can possibly suggest is that you tell your sister that
whatever she needs to do to stay alive is ok with you; that you love
her so much.

with so much sorrow for your loss,

donna

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