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Re: Heard this week on the radio

On Aug 10, 6:21 am, bc...@FreeNet.Carleton.CA (Eleonore Beaudoin)
wrote:
> amandaF (amanda...@gmail.com) writes:
> > On Aug 9, 9:22 pm, amandaF <amanda...@gmail.com> wrote:
> >> On Aug 9, 5:51 am, bc...@FreeNet.Carleton.CA (Eleonore Beaudoin)
> >> wrote:
>
> >> > Heard thisw eek on the radio:
> >> > ''Women still are looking for what a man has to genetically offer:
> >> > strenght, ie. good physical condition and health, for instance, heig
ht,
> >> > built, etc, as well as 'good provider qualities', while men still lo
ok for
> >> > the same thing on their side as well, namely in their case, always b
eing  on
> >> > the look out for who is sexually available.''
>
> >> > Just throwing it here without any comment of my own for a topic.
>
> >> Hi Chloe,   I want to see whether I can get some guidance on how to 
go
> >> about healing some hurts (though I have completely accepted the facts)
> >> I have accepted  that I think kind of hold me back in some ways in
> >> life  I mean..instead of "why?", I want to be able to just
view it a
nd
> >> shrug it off like I would if I beak a plate or bowl _ I did break two
> >> this week:) .
>
> > I think the easiest approach though I don't know how effective it
> > would be is to just shrug it off.
>
> Yes. If one can simply do it, it is the simplest way:).
> If one can not, then therer re ways to elarn to take new havbits and new
> actiosn that will ring a person to one day shurg it off in no time. Jus
> liek they reacted in a flare before to the same thing, they can program
> themself as said in my previous post, so that one day it all is shrugged
> off instantly. By a decision, but an instant decision that by then woudl
> have been installed like a new programming, and debugged as they went and
> leanred, tripped, got back up again, redecided to clean the bug, and went
> on again until it became a reflex to shrug it off.
>
> There will remain things of values and principles that are too important
> for an induividual to shrug off, however: shrugging those off would be
> like denying all they are, all they believe in and so on.

Yeah...

> But in such
> cases, an already installed reprogramming, one we CHOSE to install
> and worked on through the years, helps a person to think and ask themself
> what solution they aim at, and what they want their ACTION to then be
> towards that solution, instead of reacting without thinking -which more
> often than not does bring us away from our own peace of mind
> and self-respect,on top of leading us away from our chosen goals.

I agree.
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