Re: Does this mean she is cheating if you found her panties in a plastic bag

rayquan21@hotmail.com wrote:
> On Feb 20, 9:01 pm, "deja.blues" <deja.bl...@gmail.com> wrote:
>> <rayqua...@hotmail.com> wrote in message
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>>> I went to clean up the room oneday and I never open the bag, it was a
>>> shopping bag tied up so she grab the bag from me and open it and
>>> pulled out underwear... So I was like why do you have them in there
>>> and she said because when she was at work she was getting her period
>>> and didn't want to stain her panties, so I just look at her and was
>>> confuse and puzzle I mean this is a woman monthly thing but for the
>>> 1st time in my life 3 relationships of doing laundry we all seen
>>> worst, but this time the underwears was clean no stain and inside was
>>> 2 sheets of paper towels. Can someone explain is this a sign or am I
>>> overreacting????
>> She's selling them on the Internet for money!!!!
>
> I believe in a 2 way street.......
> lol well tai thanks you said you hope or think it's not a fetish for a
> me hell no lol... I thought it was strange to wonder why my wife would
> bag panties 1st off I was curious and wanted a answer from exp. now if
> you read what I wrote this is not a topic of fetish panties or monthly
> cycles just what if's , if the tables was turn and I came home with no
> boxers on and just pants I can just say I poop on myself ok lol but
> would she ask to say were are my boxers???, and there can be 2 answers
> (1) I threw it away too damn nasty to carry around poopy boxers right
> the same with period undies right? (2) I could bagem just bring home a
> pair of boxers and tell her look in the bag "yes I know honey they are
> clean but I felt a case of diarreah coming on and I did not want to
> mess up my Hanes lol", The question was in a bag there was a clean
> pair of panties with 2 sheets of paper towels that's it no stain no
> nothing I just wanted to know if that is a sign of cheating, I don't
> care about monthly cycles as long as she is healthy that's it and I am
> the only one for her and I still love her! I hope to not offend
> anybody now if ya don't mind I gotta finish dinner before she comes
> home in the next 45 min. thanks and good night! oh yeah Tyler Perry
> plays are good to watch he said if man comes home without socks he is
> cheating, if he comes home smelling like Irish Spring it's a dead
> givaway something is going on lmao
>
> asm
>

I don't think there's a problem with the undies.  I do think there's
some kind of a problem because of your concern about it.  It seems like
there must be something wrong that you would have enough lack of faith
that you would raise the question of trust.

Do you think it might be that you are overly insecure, or has there been
some loss of intimacy or other change in feelings or behaviors that is
causing you to feel this lack of trust?
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