Re: Think twice before ring.........

DrLith wrote:
> Leo wrote:
>> pmatson22@gmail.com wrote:
>>> What's the first 5 or 10 things we have to search and makwe sure in a
>>> woman  of our life before we get married to her?
>>>
>>
>> I heard a yogic guru once say, four seasons of easy, easy, easy.  Not
>> that I can comprehend that, but it sure sounds good.  Assuming that he
>> believes children shouldn't come from out of wedlock, he must be into
>> population control :)
>
> By four seasons of easy, easy, easy, does that mean four 3-month periods
> where everything in the relationship is easy? Does that really seem so
> unattainable? I'm on season 12 of my relationship with my husband, and
> they've all been easy.
>
> That's not to say they will always all be easy, but...I've got to
> say...if you can't rack up at least 4 good ones at the beginning of a
> relationship, you are either totally picking the wrong partners, or
> you've got some work to do on your own relationship skills. Which is not
> a slam: I've made some bad choices in the past myself. But in part as a
> result of those experiences, I finally learned: if things are rough in
> the beginning, they only get worse from there!

No I believe that's a good guide. I was joking, given the particular
painful position I'm in now.
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